40-Day Challenge: Welcome (Day 34)

Begin with the Prayer of Abandonment. 

Every morning, we welcome in the day with something akin to a whimper and a squabble, the unfortunate combination of one morning person in a house with three night owls. On weekends, Christopher chatters and prances around the breakfast table as the rest of us glare balefully from behind our teacups and breakfast cereal. “Christopher, have you walked the dog yet? And have you taken your medicine?”

Please, just make it stop. I had about 5.2 seconds of REM sleep last night . . .

Weekdays at Chez Saxton follow a fairly predictable schedule. At 6:30, Christopher bounces out of bed, ready to greet the world, and spends the next thirty minutes poking around, trying to find various articles of clothing that “room fairies” have mislaid during the night: pants (clean ones are worth their weight in gold), mismatched socks, empty homework folder, and shoes.

Sarah digs out of her nest between Craig and me and grumps her way to her room to get ready. Invariably it takes two or three fashion parades before she settles on the dress-code outfit that was laid out on her bed the night before.

I stumble out of bed, let out the dog, and make my way to the kitchen to whip up lunches and breakfasts, give the kids their medicine, and stumble back to the bedroom to uproot my husband from the sheets. I then dress for carpool duty. (Forget about makeup. They’re lucky to get a bra.)

On the days that I manage to get four or more hours of sleep (which can be a challenge, depending on Craig’s work schedule and Sarah’s nocturnal wanderings), the short drive to school is a pleasant one. I put on some Keith Green or Second Chapter of Acts (“Hymns”) and sing along with the kids. I talk about the cloud formations or the family of geese that has taken residence in the pond by the local women’s prison. Sometimes I just tell stories about when they were little. Everyone is happy, cooperative, and ready to greet the day.

On the days that I get less than my full quota of zzzzzzs, the mood in the car is a very different one. Kids snarl as I implore them to please not to add to my headache. Hats, gloves, and homework completely disappear. Medicine is left on the breakfast table, necessitating another run to school to deliver whatever was left behind. Those geese had better step lively as they cross the road, or someone is going to lose a tail feather.

Have you ever noticed how your family’s mood is determined in no small part by your own? Wives and mothers are the heart of the family home. We are the harbingers of beauty and grace — even with bed head and morning breath, we are the ones who either elevate the hearts of our family, or summon a dark cloud overhead.

At the end of the day, we get to do it all over again. The kitchen is Ground Zero of family life, where all the senses can feast on the aroma of dinner, the sound of music, the pretty arrangement of candles or flowers with the dishes, a nibble of something sweet or savory — this daily dose of beauty form memories that will stay with them for life. How do I know? If I close my eyes, I can still remember the feeling of coming home, the aroma of soup and bread and my father’s pipe tobacco smoke.

Is your home a place your sweetheart wants to come home to? Are you as welcoming as you were that first year of marriage.

Today’s Challenge:  Take a look at the entrance to your home. What does it say about your family? (And do you need to “tweak” the message a bit?)

Today’s Prayer:  “Holy Spirit, welcome to my home. Enter every room, every corner, every drawer and shine your perfect light upon them, that our family will be bound together in perfect love. Amen.”

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  1. it was not until I had read this post that I realised how true your comment on how a mothers mood affects her family really is. For me it was a ‘lightbulb moment’. Thankyou…

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  2. I still don’t remember it ALL the time — but when I forget, the kids remind me pretty quickly!

    Glad you’re finding this helpful…. Heidi

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