Update: On April 15 I got a note from Ben’s mother, thanking me for the post … and letting me know that, two years after Ben’s death, they adopted two girls from Russia!
On March 29, 2002 — Good Friday seven years ago — three-year-old Ben Packard suddenly died of croup. His parents desperately wanted to find [...]
Posts Tagged ‘Grief and Loss’
Miracle Monday: Ben’s Bells Project
Posted in grief, inspiration, mercy, tagged Arizona Daily Star, Ben's Bells, Grief and Loss, inspiration, Miracle Mondays, Russia adoption on April 13, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
Miracle Mondays: “Writing Your Tragedy…” Guest Post by Jane Lebak
Posted in Adoption, tagged anencephaly, Grief and Loss, writing on March 30, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
When we think of “miracles,” most often we think of a happy ending to a personal challenge — a prayer answered, or an unexpected divine intervention. And yet, as C.S. Lewis would say, “God shouts to us in our pain.” He does indeed answer our prayers, but His answer isn’t always “Yes.” Sometimes it’s yes; sometimes [...]
Rejoicing For Joyce: Good-bye, Farewell
Posted in death, grief, heaven, tagged Grief and Loss, migraines on September 28, 2008 | 3 Comments »
Anyone who has ever lost a loved one too suddenly to say goodbye will related to Lionel’s anguish as he shares this moving tribute to this EM at Rejoicing For Joyce.
When our time is not God’s time (as so often happens in life), it helps to recall that there is no time in heaven. Though [...]
Memento Mori
Posted in grief, parenting, tagged Grief and Loss, Memento Mori, parenting, priorities on August 13, 2008 | 3 Comments »
There is nothing quite like the deaths of two friends — both of whom were just my age, one of whom left behind a five-year-old son — within a single month to make a person take stock. The early Christians had an expression: Memento Mori (remember death). This was not a morbid preoccupation with the [...]
When a Pet Dies: Letter from Heaven
Posted in children, death, grief, pets, tagged Grief and Loss, parenting, pet dies on August 7, 2008 | Leave a Comment »
My mother-in-law passed this on to me today. I warn you … it’s a tear-jerker. So go grab a tissue and a cup of tea, and settle in. This information might come in handy one day! (If anyone can help me with the original source, I’d be happy to post it.)
Our 14 year old dog, [...]

















